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Hi everyone! This is Esateys! Good morning, and good afternoon and good evening! Depending upon when it is that you are listening to this.

This is part 3 of how to have more money. Greatly appreciate those of you that have been with me and have sent me private messages about this. It’s really nice.

And I also want to thank you for sharing this. It only takes one second to hit that share button and let other people know if you are finding value. It’s helpful for them. Just might be anyway.

So, we’ve spoken in parts 1 and 2 about whether you are a spender or hoarder. We spoke about your parentage and how you kind of grew up with money and many other things. If you haven’t listened to parts 1 and 2 I invite you and I encourage you to do that right now.

But today, what we are going to speak about is how to make money your friend. And how the energy of life manifests that you can have more money and what’s really underneath that.

Money Is Energy

So first of all, remember that we’ve spoken about energy is everywhere and money is energy. Therefore, money is everywhere. We have a belief system that money is that number that you see on your bank statement.

Or in your checking account and I know that that does appear to be a reality, but I also know that it also is going to keep you from feeling opulent or feeling poverty stricken. And how you feel is you manifest.

That’s the part that’s very, very, important is to understand and remember that how you feel and what you are putting out to the world is what you are going to bring back to you.

So, let’s say that you have a conversation inside that says you get your statement and you are going to pay your bills today. Dang, I can’t stand it! I just don’t have enough money to do all this! I don’t know how I’m going to allocate this money because Jim didn’t get as much money in his last paycheck we don’t have enough to do what it is that we need to do for the basics.

This struggle is just really getting to me and I don’t know how I’m ever going to get through this. You are thinking all these thoughts as you are writing out these checks or giving out your credit card number. Oh yeah, my credit card numbers are just about maxed out! What am I going to do?

Well here’s what’s happening while you are doing that. You are just shutting the door shutting the door shutting the door to receiving. What you think, how you feel, and what you’re putting out is creating a world for you to live in. Your very own world.

And when you start to really have that awareness, then you can start to really be in touch with what it is that you might want to do differently. Because if you are feeling that sense of scarcity and you are putting energy on it, then you are going to have more of that occur in your life.

So, it’s an important level for you. It’s really the most important. Remember this. You manifest from your feeling and from your intention, not so much from your action.

Your action is important, but it’s not it. How many people do you know or how many times have you gone out and you’ve done things but they just really never happened right, the way you wanted them to. Or maybe not at all?

Well, that’s because underneath there might have been a thought that says, gosh, and in regards to money, I don’t really deserve to have this and I don’t like the way that people be with money. You know, these millionaires and billionaires they throw their power around and they control and all these things.

So, it’s possible that those unconscious feelings that we’ve spoken about in part 1 are really having an effect on that. So, it’s important to be aware, to be conscious of what it is that you have going on inside of yourself.

So how much gratitude do you have towards money?

So, how much gratitude do you have towards money? Do you see a penny or dime on the ground and go, Oh, that’s only a penny. Money is energy, remember. So, you have gratitude for that, every little bit makes a difference in how you be with it.

So, if you are in a place where you are focusing on what it is that you have, I’m so grateful that I have enough money to pay this bill, or that bill, or that bill. I’m so grateful that I have money coming in.

I’m so grateful that money is coming forth to me. I’m so grateful that I have a ceiling over my head or food in my mouth or any of those kinds of things. That is going to make a very big difference.

So, look at your gratitude for money and when you write a check do you say thank you! And do you possibly want to consider going out and saying okay go out and multiply? Do whatever it is that will bring the best for everybody involved.

I’m so grateful that I’m paying for a material thing that I got to experience. Instead of wanting to hoard and be resentful and angry, if you ever are that. I’m not saying that you always are. But if you are, then look at that because that kind of thing keeps money from returning to you.

So, it’s important to get very clear about the undermining kinds of thoughts that are positive or perhaps they are not so great. Because you might just have really loving things.

Ever since I was very small I used to write thank you on my checks. Now I always use credit cards so I don’t really write checks hardly ever. But when I do I’m always writing thank you because it’s a statement of gratitude.

It’s an energy that I’m sending out with that money. So be aware that you can do these little things. So, you think the gratitude, you can write the gratitude. One person told me yesterday I kiss my checks. Okay!

Whatever works for you! And the other thing that you can do is when you send it out, recognize that what you are really desiring by whatever it is that you are purchasing, is not a material thing. I know it seems like it’s a material thing.

I know it seems like it’s I want that new car or I want to have dinner or I want to put my child through school. But if you are very honest with yourself, you will recognize that you want how it makes you feel. Money is not about the numbers, it’s about how you feel because you have money.

Does it make you feel powerful? Does it make you feel just like really good that you get to give in a way that you otherwise might not have? What is the feeling that’s underneath whatever it is that you are desiring to have?

If you are buying things for your business and you are buying more ad words or things like or Facebook advertising, is it that you are excited about being able to have Facebook advertising? No, you are excited about how that advertising is going to make you feel and help you acquire.

It might be more customers, but if you have more customers, what’s underneath that? And when you give away something, you can buy presents for your children or do things for other people. Isn’t it really that you feel good when you do that?

So ultimately be clear that money is about how you feel and when you get yourself in a place where you’re feeling good even when that money doesn’t look like what you would like to, that allows for more money to come. So, it’s kind of a cool thing actually when you start to realize that.

So, give your money direction. I think of Kevin O’Leary from Shark Tank all the time. Because he talks very clearly about money being his friend. He speaks about money as his partner. He speaks about money and he tells his money go out and find the apartment buildings I want to buy.

Go out and do this. I mean he literally speaks to it. What if you developed a relationship with money like that? What if it became literally your friend, someone that you spoke to someone you connected with and it’s not maybe a someone but it is an energy. So, it’s alive, living essence of life.

What if you connected in some way and if you think like this is weird and way out there, that’s ok! But what if it worked? What if what you are doing wasn’t just quite enough to get what it is that you desire?

Does it hurt to try something new? I’m telling you about my personal experience the more connected I feel with something the more I am one with it, the more I can experience the results from it. Therefore, I encourage you to make money your friend.

Another thing that you can do is recognize that because money is energy and because it’s everywhere, that you breathe it in. You literally can do an exercise where you are breathing that energy into your body and you can exhale it.

The more you allow it to come and go, the more you allow the flow of it to experience rather than hoarding it or holding on to it, the more powerfully it will be attracted toward you because all of life, remember a couple of videos ago I said that some people say that God is uninterrupted movement.

God is energy and money is energy. God is all of life. Therefore, when you have the experience of letting the flow of life come through you rather than try to hold on to it, it expands because everything we have attention to is expanding.

So, you can visualize what it is that you would like and remember that when you are visualizing feel the feelings with it because that’s the way you are going to get the results you are looking for.

Another thing you can do is, and this is what I’m going to leave you with, is that you can script about money. You can create literally a script. A one-page paper that talks about your relationships with money and how you would like your life to be based on that.

And if you would like a paper, an example of how to do that, I am more than thrilled to share with you something that I’ve written that will give you an example and will show you how to get yourself to be having the results that really would like.

So private message me your email address, I will send you that paper.  If you would like to be on the email list, then let me know that. When you do I’ll let you know when I’m doing retreats and seminars and things of that nature.

So please share this along and remember that if you would like to maintain an awesome relationship with money, stay aware of how you are feeling, thinking, experiencing, speaking and hiding with money. Visualize, make it your friend and then allow yourself to focus on how much you have, not how little you seem to have.

That’s a really important thing. And when you get the script information and you write your script, read it every single day. So, if you would send me a private message with your email address, I’ll send you the free information about the scripting and I’ll put you on the mailing list and secondly, I would like for you and would appreciate you writing a comment about this series in the comment section.

And in addition to that, if you’d write in the comment section what other things you would like me to do series on, I’d be more than happy to do that. So, I am working on one that I’m thinking of. Oh, and by the way, my last thing, my last to the last thing is that I am looking at doing a free audio that’s more extensive than what I’m doing here on Facebook about money and manifestation.

So, if I have your email address you will get information about that and I’ll keep you posted on what’s happening.Have the most awesome weekend of your life so far. I really look forward to connecting with you again tomorrow.

And until then, feel a hug.

Author: Esateys Stuchiner

Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.

Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.

Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.

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