Hi everyone, this is Esateys. And I thought I would bring you with me today because I had a very busy day, and I didn’t know how I was going to fit Facebook Live in, or be able to speak to you. So, what I decided to do is just bring you here with me to the beauty studio that I’m at, Curl up and Dye, that’s d-y-e by the way, here in Portland Oregon with Dana Carter who is the one who does pretty things for people. And I really appreciate her and all of the things she does to make Portland a more awesome place to be, and to look. So, today we’re gonna talk about beauty a little bit, because most people, they have one of two things going on. One is, they want to look better, they want to feel good. And there are other people that say well, I just want to be natural, I just want to be myself, I just want to be whatever. And many times, when we say that, that we just want to be natural, we want to be ourselves, is we have this underlying thing like, well, spiritual people don’t do that. Or you’ve got a lot of ego if you’re really wanting to be in a place where you’re wanting to look good all the time. And I will tell you a couple things about that. First of all, the first thing is that when you feel great, when you feel beautiful, when you feel alive inside, what happens? Well, your frequency rises, your attitude rises, you feel better because your vibration is bigger. And guess what happens when your vibration is bigger? Everything works better in your life. You are more attractive because you feel more attractive. You are in a position where you allow people to be in your life and you’ll find that when you’re feeling really good about yourself, what happens? People compliment you more. People will find great things about you, and you’re like, looking the same that you used to, perhaps. Or, you’re saying the same things, but somehow you are really experiencing life. So, when you feel beautiful outside, a lot of times you will feel more beautiful inside. But of course, we have to split that around and that is that when you feel beautiful inside, the outside is really very profound. So, one of the things that I asked Dana today when I was with her was: what have you learned about being in this profession for all of the year that she has been? And she said that women are very hard on themselves. And it is difficult for them to be able to accept a compliment. That they are so rough, and self-judging and so difficult with themselves, but they’ll be nice and soft and easy to other people. So, think about that for yourself. Is that a part of your personality? And it’s not just women, I find this for men, where I give a compliment to a man, rarely will they look me back in the eye and say thank you. So, when someone says something nice to you, what do you do with that? Do you hear a little voice that says ya, well they don’t know what I’m really like? Or they don’t really know me well enough to know what’s happening when I’m not in front of them. Or, you hear a voice from your mother or your father or somebody who said, you’re not beautiful, you’ll never make it. Whatever kind of things you’ve got going on, the most important thing to do is to remember that you are an amazing being. And who you are is not how you look. And, if you like looking at beautiful things, then do what it takes to feel more beautiful. Do what it takes to feel alive in life. Do what it takes to express yourself differently. And I want to speak to men here about this. Because men many times, not always, but sometimes they think, well I don’t have to do this, that’s the girl thing. Well, that’s silly. Why would you think that wrinkles on a man are suddenly attractive? Because we have a belief system that, that is supposed to make you more manly, or more whatever it is that you think? Or, what about the color of your hair? Or what about your weight? Or what about the way that you dress? These are things that are important for you to be thinking about, because men also have bad same things going on, they happen to be human. So therefore, you guys, how are you feeling internally? How do you feel when you’re dressed-up and you’ve got great clothes on and you just feel kinda spiffy? Doesn’t that change the way you see the world? And women, I already know that that’s true for you. If you’re hanging out in your sweats all the time, that’s great some of the time. But what happens and how do you feel when you dress differently? So, are you dressing, are you looking are you experiencing your life differently than just one old pattern? So, when you have that going on, you can make a decision. Am I going to just continue to be in self-judgement? Or, am I going to do something that makes me feel better? Because when I feel better, the world feels better. So, take a moment today and really come to plate if you feel sloppy, if you feel elegant. If you feel beautiful, or if you feel kind of schmucky. What is it that’s going on with you? And then make a decision if that works for you. And if it does, you know hey, it’s like, do whatever it is you want to do. My purpose, one of my purposes is, is to bring awareness to everyone and anyone who would like to know about themselves, so when they have that awareness, they can decide, does this work for me or not? Because you are always a choice. You are always a choice. You are always a choice. If your life is working, yippee! But, my guess is that there’s some part of your life that you would like to have be just a little bit different. So, look at that and decide for yourself, what would it take to have………, be the way that I would like? What would it take for me to feel more confident and more beautiful inside and out? And then reach out and go for that. Go for that today. Make a decision that that’s how you can transform, and recreate and reinvent yourself, your profession, your looks. Start all over again, this is life! You get to make it any way you want, so go for it. I hope that you have the most awesome day of your life so far, and that you will see the beauty in yourself. And go find someone else to let them know that they’re beautiful, physically, mentally, emotionally or in whatever way you feel drawn to. Because what you give, comes back to you. I am again requesting that you get your name on my e-mail list because I have new gifts coming our way, and I cannot wait to connect with you. And I want to remind you also that I’m going to be leaving for South Africa next week and I’m going to be speaking over there. So, on my Facebook Live, those are gonna become very sporadic and who knows where they’ll be coming from. Until then, and until we speak next time, feel the hug.
Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
For more information, go to esateys.com.