Hi everyone, this is Esateys. So, this is actually a replay because I did this actually two days ago, and for some reason it didn’t seem to come out right. The technology was an issue, so I am really doing this with new focus. And what am I doing? I’m here to ask you, are your dreams passing you by? I was having a conversation actually a couple days ago with a friend of mine, and we were talking about different inventions and different things that we thought of that we never followed through on. And one of the things that she shared was that for 10 years or more, she had cut the bottom part of her pantyhose off that were firming to the length, and she would wear them like them because she wanting to be able to wear sandals, and it would make it work up on the legs but not on the feet. And she was dumbfounded when she found out that the woman, which I don’t know what her name is, but she created Spanx, Spanx! You’ve heard of that?
It’s a thing that makes you stay more in place when you’re not in place, or makes you more firm even when you’re not as firm as you would like to be. And she has it for men and she has it for women. And guess what, she’s a billionaire, a “b,” that’s like a “b,” like a billionaire. And because of that she is really living a really wonderful life, and she’s helped so many people feel better about themselves. Now, what if my friend had taken that thought and done something with it? Was she before this other person? It appears that she definitely was.
So, my question for you is, how many things have you thought of that you’ve not followed through with? How many dreams have you had that you’ve thought to yourself, I can’t really afford that? I can’t really make that happen, I don’t know how to have this occur, it seems to be complicated. Whatever it is that the little mind is telling you, this is the way we sabotage ourselves. It’s just fascinating to watch ourselves and the things that we do. Because we’re brilliant, we’re really, really smart. We get these ideas and these things go through our minds that touch our heart and could touch millions of people. But do we follow through? Most of the time we don’t. Because we don’t think it’s going to float easily. Or, we usually will say to ourselves I can’t do that, I don’t have the expertise, I wouldn’t know where to begin, I don’t know how to get an inventors license or whatever, a paten, all of those kinds of things. Stop it! Stop that, stop that right now!
If you feel something really strong inside of yourself, then go do it, take action. So, how many intentions have you set that you haven’t followed through with? Hmm. That might be something to consider because if you look at the intentions that you make that you don’t follow through with, not only is that intention something taking you step by step to a dream coming true, and not only that, it allows you to increase your self-esteem and your motivation when you do follow through with your intentions. So, there are outcomes that are far more impressive when you really do have a thought and you feel the feeling, and you follow through with it. Because when you don’t, there’s a part of us that feels like oh, I can’t, or I couldn’t, or no wonder. And so, we stay small, we don’t really put ourselves in a position where we are feeling empowered and alive and really connected to life. And because of that, we do not express and be all that we’re capable of being, so the question to ask yourself is what’s holding you back? You specifically, yes you specifically, what’s your story? What’s your own personal programming that’s keeping you small or completely ineffective in ways that you would like to be? What excuses do you have? What programming has created you just going around in this same old comfort zone even though it feels like hell?
That’s a piece that’s really important to look at, because your thoughts and your intentions, when they are powerfully clear, and you feel it in your heart and your soul, then that’s the time to go forward and take a breath. And let it come to you, let it organically open up and come to you rather than feel like you have to do something that is instantaneous or overwhelmingly, hysterically pushing you. It’s not about that, but it is about taking step by step, and following through, and fulfilling what it is that you say that you want. Because this is in all the areas of our lives. And it’s a fun thing to look at actually, when you look at the things you say that you want, and then how far do you go to make it happen? Or do you stop a quarter of the way, or half way, or three quarters of the way. And it gets too hard, and we get confused and we think up all these reasons that we just can’t go on. Well, not finishing things that we set an intention too, creates a very, very low vibration, because we don’t feel good about ourselves. And I’ll tell you what, I’ve been working with thousands of people for a lot of years and the number one thing that goes on with them, is they don’t really trust or believe in themselves.
They don’t know they’re loved and they don’t know that they’re loveable. And so, their empowerment level, their confidence level is pretty darn low depending on the person. And what does that do? It keeps us squelched. It keeps us from really leaving the complete capabilities that we have within ourselves. That’s what’s important to recognize. There’s dreams that really want to come out of you. So, think big! Think big! The only box you’re living in is the one that you made up. So, stop. Break free from the box and for a while you might be a little bit blown-out, that’s ok, be blown out and watch what occurs. I heard something when I was listening to a book just yesterday and she was talking about raising your prices for the work that you do, and what she said was that when you raise your prices, be prepared. Because 25% of the people that you’ve been working with will probably fall away. And she said, and these are my words, what’s great about that is that creates the vacuum, so the people that you really want to work with come into your life. Think about that. That can have to do with your friends, it can have to do with your business, it can have to do with every single part of your life.
So, be willing to create the vacuum so your dreams can be fulfilled. Be willing to let go of anything that’s keeping you from where it is that you would really like to be. Today I would like to support you and being really empowered, really alive with your life and what it is that you’re committed to. Think about that. So, write down what it is that your dreams are, your intentions are, and then ask yourself, how bad to I want it on a scale of 1-10? And if you’re anywhere like an 8, 9 or 10, then you write out what it is that you’re going to do, and you start taking those steps and you follow through, and you get an accountable person, or a coach, someone like me. Somebody that will help you fulfill those areas when you get a little bit iffy on being able to hold the intention strong enough to go through.
You’ve got a lot to do, you’ve got a big homework assignment. You’ve got 48 hours before I’ll be back, and then you can come forward and let me know what’s happened. Because I love when you post, I love when you share, I love when you comment. Do that, continue to do that. It really helps me know, and if there’s certain things that you’d like me to speak about, write them in there. I read every one of your posts and your comments, they’re important to me and I love connected with you that way. The second thing I’d like to ask you to do is go to my website, esateys.com and check it out because it’s a new site. And based on that new site there are lots of fun things for you to acquire including free stuff.
So, go there: e-s-a-t-e-y-s.com. And my last thing for you today is what if I allowed myself to follow my dreams? And another version of that is, what would it take for me to follow my dreams? And I want to encourage you to never let anything or anyone, ever, ever, ever stand in the way of what your heart and your desire is really calling forth from within you to give to the world. Until next time, feel the hug.
Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
For more information, go to esateys.com.