Everything is cyclic. In this experiential way of living, we have certain things that we want to have in a certain cycle. Right about 30 days before your birthday, there’s a certain area where some people notice that their life just goes up against a wall and have difficulties, stress, depression, and all kinds of things. In that little window, you notice more pressure, and that’s because there are certain things that you on an unconscious level desire to complete and release. This can create stress and it can also create an opportunity for you to say, “I got to get my act together. I need to get myself more connected.” When you allow yourself to be aware and connected, you will start to see things from a perception that is a bigger perspective and profound way of being able to see life. You will love and appreciate the holidays, illness, birthdays and even death because you will recognize there is nothing to fear.
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Holidays, Birthdays, Illness and Death Part 2
This is part two of Holidays, Birthdays, Illness, and Death. I left you last time speaking about how death has changed and we were rearranging the furniture because we recognize we cannot die. There’s nowhere for us to go because the energy, in and of itself, cannot die. It can change form, it can appear to be different, it can appear to be in a different location, but it can’t go away. All things and all of life is energy. In this message, what I would like to speak about is a bit more about the holidays, illness, and birthdays piece.We've got a cycle of energy that's going around and that there are certain things that we want to experience. Click To Tweet
Around our birthdays, we have a certain cycle. In the last message, I spoke about how everything is cyclic. We have a cycle for everything. When it comes to our birthday, there are certain things that we’ve made, not on a conscious level, but our God, spirit, program, or whatever your core word is for consciousness from within you. The source of who you are, it has a plan. This isn’t exactly accurate but using words to try to describe it is a little bit tricky, so I’m going to give you the best shot I got here. We’ve got a cycle of energy that’s going around and that there are certain things that we want to experience.
In this experiential way of living, we have certain things that we want to have in a certain cycle. Every year of our life, we have certain things on a subconscious level coming from your source point of things that you want to experience, and then you as a personality get to decide how you want to perceive it. This allows you to experience many different things and get done with it. Right about 30 days before your birthday, there’s an area where some people notice that their life used to go up against a wall; difficulties, stressing, depression, all kinds of things.
Observe that for yourself and notice if in that little window there, you notice more pressure. That’s because there are certain little things that you, on an unconscious level, are desiring to complete and release. They create a pressure point around your birthday. This can create stress and it can also create an opportunity for you to say, “I see it. I get it. I got to get my act together and I need a perception shift. I need to get myself more connected.” It’s all about how you’re going to be with what it is that’s going on in your life. With that understanding, you have an opportunity to think about, “My birthday is next week” and think that every week because you may feel this pressure going on inside of you about completions, shifting, involving, changing, and perceptions. All of these things are increasing in their intensity and frequency because our world is desiring to move to a whole new level.
You’re a part of this world. You’re creating this world by who you are just being here. Your significant, very empowered, and empowering energy that allows all of this big soup of the game called life to be what it is. Around your birthday, if you notice these things, allow that to be and look at it from the biggest viewpoint you possibly can. In addition to that, you may notice that some people will end up leaving their bodies around their birthday, 30 days before, 30 days after. I’ve had this happen with so many of my family members. My sister died two days after her birthday. She was only 53 and very unexpected. My real father died within 30 days of his birthday. Many of my friends that I know have also had death experiences right or around their body.
It’s an interesting observation because there’s a certain level of completion that you have acquired for that cycle. Remember, all you did was remove the focus of energy from being in human form where you are at that moment to another place in time, which isn’t exactly accurate, but we’ll use those words for now. I’m hoping that with this understanding, you will have a much different viewpoint about how it is that these cycles are working, how your birthday’s happening, how the death window is opening and closing, and these kinds of things.
I want to speak about the holidays and the illness. During the holidays, there are tremendous stresses that go on and because of that, we have increased illness. The illness factor happens because our stress level is very high. We are inundated with the kinds of responsibilities, ideas, and thoughts that we have to make decisions about, which is, for most, not particularly comfortable. Take that as an individual and multiply that by eight billion people or however many people we have on the planet right now. All of this is a collective energy. This collective energy is impressing upon you more stress. More people become more stressed around the holidays for the collective region as well.
What can you do? You could see this for what it is. Recognize how it is happening and observe it rather than be lost in it. Instead of falling into a vortex of feeling overwhelmed and falling into the old cycle and pattern, what you can do is stop. Take a breath. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth, and see what is happening. Notice that you’re being pulled into a vortex. You don’t need to go there. Allow yourself to be true to yourself. If you don’t feel connected to Aunt Susie, then don’t give her a present. Do what’s in your heart. Be true, impeccable, and authentic. That’s what brings joy, not trying to please other people because that does not work. It’s not real and people know it anyway, that’s the biggest joke. We think they get it, but they do. They get what’s real. You don’t even like them.Appreciate and love who you are and who we all are together working as a collective to make this adventure one incredible wild ride. Click To Tweet
I’m not saying go out there and be mean. I’m saying be true and that’s going to help you tremendously. Put things in perspective that are honest for you. Forget about the rest of the world, the social consciousness, and all those things it looks like should or have to do. When you allow yourself to recognize that your life gets to be how you perceive it, that’s your state of empowerment. When you allow yourself to be aware and connected and be the greatest observer ever, then you will start to see things from a perception that is a bigger perspective. A macro perspective, a profound way of being able to see life.
When you allow yourself to do that, you will be in a place where you will breathe more deeply and easily. You will love and appreciate the holidays, birthdays, even the illness, and even leaving the planet, which we call death. You will recognize there is nothing to fear because fear is the basis for all of this. You will recognize in this incredible, powerful, amazing adventure called life. You will start to appreciate and love who you are and who we all are together working as a collective to make this adventure one incredible Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride. Until next time, feel a hug.
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Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
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