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Have You Been Grumpier Than Usual Lately?

Hi everyone this is Esateys and welcome back.  Today we are going to speak about energies, communication, and the fragility of the human condition.  You may have noticed that people seem to be getting in lots of little sensitive battles lately.  Communication errors.  Projections.  Actually it happens all of the time.  What I have noticed in my coaching and consulting with people is there seems to be a lot of projection and miscommunication that is going on.  I wanted to give you a little bit of an update about how the energies are experienced by humans.  By all of us, these days.

What I am speaking about is there is an intensification of certain resonance values.  Now I know I might be getting a little out there for some of you.  It is important for you to understand that everything is energy.  We are all energy.  Hopefully this is not a debatable fact for you.  You can find it scientifically all over the place.  I am assuming that you get that and you realize that everything is energy.  The energy of the planet, the planet itself, is an energy.  It is a live living organism, an experience.  It has a consciousness just like we do and just like everything else on the planet does.  The planet right now is receiving a tremendous amount of energy that is allowing to cleanse itself.  Rather mostly cleanse those of us that are on the planet.  What that means is, that the planet is desiring to raise the frequency of herself.  What does that mean?  We all must raise our frequencies.  To help us do that, the intensity in the frequencies is becoming very high.  What happens is that energy moves deeply into the cellular body.  That means that your cells are literally being purged.  They are being cleansed if you will.

You may have noticed that, let me share something, that when I was a child I had asthma.  I was very severely asthmatic.  I had to carry shots around with me.  Epinephrine shots.  I one time had to be air vaced out of Catalina Island.  My asthma was so bad I couldn’t breathe.  About maybe when I was 18 or 19, it just went away.  Poof!  They actually say that you can outgrow asthma.  I did although I was a little frightened about that.  I carried an inhaler for years after that.  The bottom line is I have never had asthma issues since then.

About a month ago I started with this funny little cough.  I didn’t really think too much about it.  I rarely, rarely, get sick.  If I do, it’s a little sinus headache and I take immune boosters and that is the end of that.  This time the cough became increasingly more constricted.  I started wheezing and I started having difficulty breathing.  And I went to the doctor after a while because I tried all my essential oils, remedies, all that I knew and thank goodness we do have medicine when we need it.  I went to the doctor and she said, my lungs sounded really terrible.  They were full of gunk and all of these things.  I got a chest x-ray to rule out pneumonia.  I didn’t have it but I had asthmatic bronchitis.  I was dumbfounded.  I mean I haven’t had asthma!  I don’t even think about it.  Asthma has to do with suppression of feelings.  I started doing some introspection about that.  What I really recognized is, in my dreams over the last several weeks prior to this time, I have been dreaming about my mother, my childhood, my father, both of my parents died lots of years ago.  And the bottom line is, it’s like I was retracing.  I was dreaming about all of these childhood things and ta dah….I come up with asthma.  I found that fascinating.

When I did some introspection, even more so, I realize that I was actually rethreading.  What that means is, that you go back into your cells and your cells start dumping out things that were suppressed.  That were caught there from childhood.  This relates to what it is I spoke about in the very beginning.  The energies that are coming in are allowing us to purge out things that are no longer important or valuable for us.  For some, myself for example, we are actually experiencing some of these cellular regurgitations.  And that is something that is helpful perhaps to know.  Because if you are experiencing things that you don’t normally experience and you are noticing that you are not feeling the way you usually feel or you notice that suddenly you got things from your childhood popping up.  You start looking at people and you are reminded of things that happened as a child.  Mother, Father, Sister, yelling at you.  Whatever it is, be playful and curious as to what is going on in your life.  This could be you purging out and allowing that old part of you to be released.  These energies are a gift.  Always.

Now what I have also noticed is that many people are going through a lot of insecurity.  A lot of fear, blame, and difficulty.  When we are frightened, we project.  We don’t like to feel the feelings so we look for someone to put it on.  Or something.  Now the someone might be a relationship, someone we don’t know, it might be the presidential candidate, our animals, wherever it is that you notice that looks like it’s a problem, it’s a clue that there is something going on inside.  Because we do know that everything happens from the inside and then it appears outwardly.  So if there is something over there, it’s always in here.  So with understood, we also can open up our hearts to more compassion because everyone is going through this.  Not everyone is as aware, alert and connected as you are.  You listen to things like this.  You are expanding yourself.  You are phenomenal that you are so far ahead of the game as most people.  So you can acknowledge yourself for that and utilize that gift to be more open hearted, less judgmental, and all of the things that might normally come from somebody who is feeling insecure, unhappy and fearful.  The people in your life and in your own life are probably feeling that way at a pretty high level.  When this shows up what happens is many times people will feel offended much more readily than they normally would.

I just had an experience with someone I was consulting with the other day.  They were telling me about some difficulties they were having in one of their relationships.  What it boils down to is the person that was this person’s friend was usually dynamic and assertive.  They were confronted with a circumstance that really lowered her vibration.  She felt less than.  Judgmental.  These things make us not feel so great inside.  And because of that, when the person I was consulting was with her friend, this friend not feeling so good, whatever this other person was feeling.  This person overreacted.  Became defensive.  If you notice that with anyone you know or if you have been that way, do you find yourself being snappy, pissy at people?  Are you reacting a little bit differently than you would like to?  Well, all of this has to do with what is coming up.

You have the ability to do that differently.  You have the ability to be aware of what is going on.  You right this very moment, have a better understanding than 99.9% of the people on the planet.  Because of that, you become the Master.  No more victim.  You become the master.  You step up.  You recognize what is going on and you allow other people to be in the place that they are in.  Speak your truth, set your boundaries, but no attack.  No judgement.  Go inside and do ho’oponopono.  Or however you say that word.  You can look up the book Limitless by Joe Vitale.  It will tell you about a doctor who actually healed all of these people that were in a mental institution by just doing this process.  And this process is incredibly powerful.  It will help you take your focus off of them and recognize that it is within you.  That the power is.  It is within you that perception originates.  It is within you that can change your outer world because of the way you frame and the way you are with your attitude with every single thing.  That is the gift.

The game called life is truly an adventure.  And the more aware you become the more connected you become, the more you understand the way you work and your personality.  And the way it comes down, boy, then you start to have fun.  And I will tell you that there will be nothing that will stand in your way of being joyful when you really get it.  When you absolutely step into that awareness and you are living that.  So put your attention towards that.  Put it towards being the master that you truly are.  Recognize your phenomenal capabilities to be who you truly are and allow other people to be in the place they are in.  If they are too nasty and not what you want to be around than divest yourself from the energy.  Nothing wrong with getting out of the way of the oncoming truck.  No extra points for standing in front of the semi.  Wish them well, give them love, momentarily, or perhaps forever, release them from your life.  Your frequency and your ability to be who you truly are is going to be influenced and affected by those you hang out with.  If you are not really being with people who are high vibrating, uplifting, positive people, than think about it.  Think about what it is you are doing, thinking, feeling, saying.  Stop feeling guilty.  Stop.  Just stop and look inside.  Decide what it is that you want.  And who it is that you truly choose to be.  And live your life more open heartedly than you ever, ever have.

Knowing and understanding how the game called life works, brings you to a great advantage.  You go out there and live like the true master that you are.  The true loving, giving, compassionate, and open hearted being that you truly are.  Until next time, know that I am you and you are me and we are one.  Big hug.

Author: Esateys Stuchiner

Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.

Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.

Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.

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