Money can ever truly be bad if you make an enemy out of it. At the same time, switching your thought around that could make you realize the potential of having money as your friend and letting it work for you and not against you. Concluding the three-part series on how to have more money, learn how you can break down the ways you can make money your friend. Delve into the energy that life manifests so you can understand how your relationship with money could actually work for the better to improve not only your business but your life as well.
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Having More Money Pt. 3
This is part three of How To Have More Money. I greatly appreciate those of you who have been with me and had sent me private messages about this. It’s nice. I also want to thank you for sharing this. It only takes one second to hit that share button and let other people know if you’re finding value. It might be helpful for them anyway. We’ve spoken in part one and two about whether you’re a spender or whether you’re a hoarder. We’ve spoken about your parentage, how you grew up with money, and many other things. If you haven’t watched part one and part two, I invite you and encourage you to do that. What we’re going to speak about is how to make money your friend and how the energy of life manifests so you can have more money and what’s underneath that.
Energy is everywhere and money is energy. Therefore, money is everywhere. We have a belief system that money is that number that you see on your bank statement or in your checking account. That does appear to be a reality but it also is going to keep you from feeling opulent or feeling poverty-stricken and how you feel is how you manifest. That’s the part that’s very important. It is to understand and remember that how you feel and what you’re putting out to the world is what you’re going to bring back to you.
Let’s say that you have a conversation inside that says you get your statements and you’re going to pay your bills today. “I can’t stand it. I don’t have enough money to do all this. I don’t know how I’m going to allocate this money because Jim didn’t get as much money in his last paycheck. We don’t even have enough to do what it is that we need to do for the basics. This struggle is getting to me and I don’t know how I’m ever going to get through this.” You’re thinking all these thoughts as you’re writing out these checks or putting in your credit card number. “My credit cards are just about maxed out. What am I going to do?”
While you’re doing that, you are shutting the door to receiving. What you think, how you feel, and what you’re putting out is creating a world for you to live in, your very own world. When you start to have that awareness, then you can start to be in touch with what it is that you might want to do differently. If you are feeling that sense of scarcity and you’re putting energy on it, then you’re going to have more of that occur in your life, so it’s an important level for you. You manifest from your feeling and from your intention, not so much from your action. Your action’s important, but it’s not it.
How many people do you know or how many times have you gone out and you’ve done things but they never happened the way you wanted them to or maybe not at all? That’s because underneath, there might’ve been a thought that says, “In regard to money, I don’t deserve to have this. I don’t like the way people be with money.” These millionaires and billionaires, they throw their power away, around, and they control and all these things. It’s very possible that those unconscious feelings that we spoke about in part one are having an effect on that. It’s important to be aware and to be conscious of what it is that you have going on inside of yourself.
How much gratitude do you have towards money? Do you see a penny or a dime on the ground and go, “That’s only a penny?” Money is energy. You have gratitude for that. Every little bit makes a difference in how you be with it. If you are in a place where you are focusing on what it is that you have, “I’m so grateful that I have enough money to pay this bill or that bill. I’m so grateful that I have money coming in. I’m so grateful that money is coming forth to me. I’m so grateful that I have a ceiling over my head, food in my mouth,” or any of those things. That is going to make a very big difference.Bring what it is that will bring the best for everybody involved. Click To Tweet
Look at your gratitude about money. When you write a check, do you say, “Thank you?” Do you possibly want to consider going out and saying, “Go out and multiply. Bring what it is that will bring the best for everybody involved I’m so grateful that I’m paying for a service or a material thing that I got to experience,” instead of wanting to hoard, be resentful and angry. If you ever are that, and I’m not saying that you always are, but if you are, then look at that because that thing keeps money from returning to you. It’s important to get very clear about the undermining thoughts that are positive or perhaps are not so great because you might just have loving things. Ever since I was very small, I used to write “thank you” on my checks. Now, I always use credit cards, so I don’t write checks hardly ever. When I do, I’m always writing “thank you” because it’s a statement of gratitude. It’s an energy that I’m sending out with that money, so be aware that you can do these little things.
You think the gratitude and you can write the gratitude. One person said, “I kiss my checks.” Whatever works for you. The other thing that you can do is when you send it out, recognize that what you’re desiring by whatever it is that you’re purchasing is not the material thing. I know it seems like it’s the material thing. I know it seems like, “I want that new car,” “I want to have dinner,” or “I want to put my child through school,” but if you’re very honest with yourself, you will recognize that you’ll want how it makes you feel. It is not about the tangibility. It’s not about the numbers. It’s about how you feel because you have money. Does it make you feel powerful? Does it make you feel good that you get to give in a way that otherwise you might not have? What is the feeling that’s underneath whatever it is that you are desiring to have?
If you’re buying things for your business, if you’re buying more ad words or Facebook advertising, is it you’re so excited about being able to have Facebook advertising? No, you’re excited about what that advertising is going to help you feel. What helps you acquire might be more customers, but if you have more customers, what’s underneath that? When you give away something and you can buy presents for your children or do things for other people, isn’t it you feel good when you do that? Ultimately, be clear that money is about how you feel. When you get yourself in a place where you’re feeling good, even when that money doesn’t look like what you would like to, that allows for more money to come. It’s a cool thing when you start to realize that.What you are putting out is creating a world for you to live in. Click To Tweet
Give your money direction. I think of Kevin O’Leary from Shark Tank all the time because he talks very clearly about money being his friend. He speaks about money as his partner. He speaks about money and he tells his money, “Go out and find the apartment buildings that I want to buy. Go out and do this.” He literally speaks to it. What if you developed a relationship with money like that? What if it became literally your friend, someone that you spoke to, someone that you connected with? It’s not maybe a someone but it is an energy. It’s a living essence of life. What if you connected in some way? If you think this is weird and way out there, that’s okay but what if it worked?
What if what you were doing wasn’t quite enough to get what it is that you desire? In my own personal experience, the more connected I feel with something, the more I am one with it, the more I can experience the results from it. Therefore, I encourage you to make money your friend. Another thing that you can do is recognize that because money is energy and because it’s everywhere. You breathe it in. You literally can do an exercise where you’re breathing that energy into your body and you can exhale it. The more you allow it to come and go, the more you allow the flow of it to experience rather than hoarding it or holding onto it, the more powerfully it will be attracted towards you.
Some people say that God is an uninterrupted movement. God is energy and money is energy. God is all of life. Therefore, when you have the experience of letting the flow of life come through you, rather than try to hold onto it, it expands. Everything we have attention to is expanding so you can visualize what it is that you would like. When you’re visualizing, feel the feelings with it because that’s the way you’re going to get the results you’re looking for. Another thing that you can do and this is what I’m going to leave you with, is that you can script about money. You can create literally a script, a one-page paper, that talks about your relationship with money and how you would like your life to be based on that.
If you would like an example of how to do that, I am more than thrilled to share with you something that I’ve written that will show you how to get yourself to be having the results that you really would like. Private message me your email address. I will send you that paper. If you would like to be on the email list, then let me know that because when you do, then I’ll let you know what I’m doing retreats, seminars, and things of that nature. Please share this along. If you would like to maintain an awesome relationship with money, stay aware of how you’re feeling, thinking, experiencing, speaking, and how you mean with money. Visualize, make it your friend, and then allow yourself to focus on how much you have and not how little you seem to have. When you get the script information and you write your script, read it every single day. If you would send me a private message with your email address, I’ll send you the free information about the scripting and I’ll put you on the mailing list.
Secondly, I would like for you and would appreciate you writing a comment about this series in the comment section. In addition to that, if you write in the comment section, what other things would you like me to do series on? I’ll be more than happy to do that. I am working on one that I’m thinking of. I am looking at doing a free audio that’s more extensive than what I’m doing on Facebook about money and manifestation. If I have your email address, you’ll get information about that and I’ll keep you posted on what’s happening. I look forward to connecting with you again. Until then, feel a hug.
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Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
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