Hi everyone, this is Esateys. Today I’m going to speak about those hidden fears that cripple us. A lot of people think that fear is about being shaky and having their throat close-up, and things that are pretty obvious. But fear is very hidden. Did you know that every time you have a resistance about anything, that you’re in fear? Did you know that every time you have a judgement, you’re in fear? Did you know that every time you have an excuse about anything, you’re in fear? Did you know that when you blame, you’re in fear? Fear has many different faces, and the majority of people do not really realize how insidious it is, and how all-encompassing it is. And today I really invite you to be thinking about that. And I invite you to be looking at the ways you have fear, that perhaps you never recognized as fear.
Fear is not a bad thing, it’s a symptom, it tells you something’s off. It says that’s something’s incongruent inside. Something that you want, you’re afraid, you have a thought is not a possible or is not happening, so it’s very important to recognize when you have these fears, in the most subtlest ways. Because those subtle ways are the ways that start to add up, little by little by little by little. And what do they do? They create us living in a complete pattern of being frightened a lot of the time. Therefore, it’s important to recognize that when you have the awareness that you’ve got some resistance, you’ve got some judgement, you’re starting to realize this is like, probably a good majority of most people’s lives. It’s pretty amazing when you start to look at what fear really does in our lives.
So, when you recognize that, my suggestion is that you take a minute and you stop. And when you stop, just go inside, get out of your head and move to a place where you are now in a place where you are recognizing there’s something else going on. And do your very best to feel it. It’s usually somewhere in your body that you’ll notice it, and for most people it’s in their gut. Might be in the throat or your chest. And it takes some real practice for many people to recognize that their body is actually speaking to them. And you could just ask the question, what’s really going on here? What is this resistance about? Sometimes, people when you’re asking them to purchase something, they’ll say I don’t have the money, I don’t have the money. Well you know what I’ve learned about 99% of the time? That is not true. But what I’ve learned is that people are afraid of change. They’re afraid to do what it takes to plow through that place of resistance that they have, because the fear of the unknown, the fear of having to change is way bigger than really spending some money. But, it’s a good excuse and most people will utilize that as a way to be able to stop themselves.
Are you stopping yourself? Look inside and see how that looks for you. So, today is the bid day, today is the day that we’re going to start our Facebook Live contest, if you will. And what I’m asking you to do is to share this video on your timeline, and I’m going to ask you to private message me and say, I shared it! That’s all you need to do. And what that’s going to do, is that’s going to enter you into the contest, and at the end of the week, all the people that have shared it on their timeline are going to be together. And what’s gonna happen is we’re gonna pull one of those names out, with our eyes folded, I won’t be the one pulling, and that person is going to win a program of mine. This week it’s going to be Relationships and Beyond.
Relationships and Beyond is a powerful program, it’s about 2 and a half hours where I speak about relationships, all kinds of relationships. And it goes even beyond the kind that you were even thinking of. It’s very expansive, it’s very macro, very grounded and it’s incredibly life transformational. So, get your shares in, and if you’d like to share more than that, I would appreciate that very much. And your comments mean so much to me, thanks for those as well. By the way, you can go to ultimaterelationshipacademy.com to learn more about that program. Go up to products, and there you can click on relationships and beyond, you can read more about it. So, here’s your question for the day: what would it take for me to recognize and stop my fear? What would it take for me to recognize and move through my fear? Whichever one makes you the most comfortable. Until next time, mwah. Feel the hug.
Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
For more information, go to esateys.com.