A lot of people think about Memorial Day as a sad day. On the other hand, what they do is they celebrate. That all by itself is a paradox. The bottom line is we live in an amazing country and we have an amazing life and an opportunity to be in a great place where we can have gratitude and are able to say, “I love my life.” But how often are you saying that? Do you wake up and say that every day? You have a reason to, no matter what you have going on. Remember always, your worst day is someone else’s wildest dream. We have a lot to celebrate not because of where it is that we are living, but because of who we are. We have an opportunity to stop and smell the roses. Most importantly, think about what you can do for someone else. You have an opportunity right here, right now to make a difference.
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Memorial Day Paradox – I LOVE MY LIFE
I’ll tell you what I’m doing, something I haven’t done before. In addition to having my Memorial Day attire because I wanted to be festive, I’m outside because it is a gorgeous day. I am loving what’s happening here. What I’m speaking about is The Memorial Day Paradox. Memorial Day, a lot of people think about it as a sad day. On the other hand, what they do is they celebrate. That all by itself is a paradox. We’re celebrating death, we’re celebrating the hard-workings of many people, or are we just looking for a reason to celebrate? The truth is we have an opportunity to be in a place where we have great gratitude for the many people that have given their lives. We have this beauty, how we live in the country, and it is awesome here.
We get to have this beautiful green place with many flowers coming up. The bottom line is we live in an amazing country. You have amazing life. I have an amazing life. We have a lot to celebrate not because of where it is that we are living, but because of who we are. We have an opportunity to stop and smell the roses. Do you know how many people don’t even know what a rose is? Do you know how many people have given their lives for things that they didn’t even know what they were giving their lives for? We are in an amazing experience here in this world, in this America. I am excited and I’m honored to be a part of it with you. You can look at, what are the most awesome things I have to be grateful for? What is it that I can do that will make my life feel more empowered? Most importantly, what can you do for someone else? What can you do for others that are giving themselves to the greatest place that they know how in any given day? What is it that we can do that will increase our feeling of connection and our feeling of being in a place of true love with life?
“I love my life.” How often are you saying that? Do you wake up and say that every day? You have a reason to, no matter what you have going on. Remember always, your worst day is someone else’s wildest dream. I say that every day because I know that it’s true. Memorial Day can look like a real sad day, and for those of you that have lost many on this day, I acknowledge you, and for those that have given their lives so we have what it is that we have. We also have an opportunity to celebrate and to see things from a perspective that’s very different than the one that is going on in many people’s hearts.
What if we had gratitude without mourning? What if we had gratitude without feeling like we were in sadness? What if we didn’t grieve, but we celebrated everything and everyone who’s given everything to us? Not just on Memorial Day, but every day. How many holidays are you celebrating? I’m going to be in confession here. We’ve been working most of this weekend because we were gone to Dallas. We haven’t been out enjoying this, which is one of the reasons that I decided that we need to get out and be in this beautiful sunshine, in this beautiful green, in this beautiful world that we live in, and to be with you because I wanted so much to share my life with yours. I love when you share your life with me, because we are a collective. We are a group of individuals that come together as one. When we allow ourselves to see that in ourselves and each other, everything changes.
You have an opportunity, right here, right now to make a difference. You get to make a difference. You can make a statement for yourself right now that you will wake up every day and say, “I love my life,” and reach a place where you mean it. Find out what it is that you’re grateful for. Every morning, five things before you even get out of bed that you’re grateful for. Five things every night before you go to sleep that you are grateful for. What do you think will happen? Your life is going to change, that’s what’s going to happen. You’re going to find that everything in your world changes because your vibration changes, because your attitude changes, because your mindset changes. It’s up to you to make your life be what it is you want it to be. You can be in sadness and you can be in grief or you can be in joy and you can be in creation and you can be alive. You can be whatever it is that you want to be.
That’s the freedom that we have. We have the freedom to be whomever it is that we choose to be. You have the free will to think what you want to think, say what you want to say, and do what you want to do. Recognize with gratitude the incredible place that you live and the incredible life that you have the opportunity to be, to create, and to have it be whatever you would like it to be. Happy, sad, mad, or glad, it’s all up to you. On this fine, awesome day, I want to thank you for being in my life. I’m in such gratitude. I’m in such joy that I get to share my life with yours. I’m asking you to share yours with me.
Create or Reignite Your Perfect Relationship, it is an awesome program and it will change everything for you, your relationship with yourself and your relationship with others. Make this the most awesome day of your life, and remember every morning and every night, five things that you’re really grateful for. For now, I invite you to go to my website, www.Esateys.com.Check it out and let me know how I can be in your life at a whole new level and support you in ways that are beyond your wildest dreams. Your question for today is, “What would it take for me to feel gratitude in every moment of every day, no matter what was happening in the outside world?” Rafael, did you want to come in here and say something?
I want to say hi to everybody and this is what I have to be grateful for every day. Love you guys.
Thank you everyone. Until next time, bye for now.
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Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
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