Hey everyone, this is Esateys.  I’ll tell you what, I’m doing something I haven’t done before so in addition to having my Memorial Day attire because I just wanted to be festive today, I’m outside because it is a gorgeous day.  And I am loving what’s happening here.  So, what I’m speaking about today is The Memorial Day Paradox.  So, Memorial Day, a lot of people think about it as a very sad day, and on the other hand, what they do is they celebrate.  So, that all by itself is a paradox.  We’re celebrating death, we’re celebrating the hard-workings of so many people, or are we really just looking for a reason to celebrate?

The truth is, we have an opportunity to really be in a place where we have great gratitude for the many, many people that have given their lives, so we have this beauty to how we live in the country.  And it is awesome here.  We get to have this beautiful green place with so many flowers coming up.  But the bottom line is, we live in an amazing country.  You have amazing life, I have an amazing life.  And we have a lot to celebrate not just because of where it is that we are living, but because of who we are.  We have an opportunity to really stop.  Stop and smell the roses.  Do you know how many people don’t even know what a rose is?  Do you know how many people have given their lives for things that they didn’t even know that they were giving their lives for?  We are in an amazing experience here in this world and in this America.  And I am excited, and I’m honored to be a part of it with you.

So, today you can kind of look at, gosh what are the most awesome things I have to be grateful for?  What is it that I can do that will make my life feel more empowered?  And most importantly, what can you do for someone else?  What can you do for others that are giving themselves to the greatest place that they know how, in any given day?  What is it that we can do that will increase our feeling of connection and our feeling of being really in a place of true love with life?  I LOVE MY LIFE!  How often are you saying that?  Do you wake up and say that every day?  You have a reason to, no matter what you have going on.  Remember always, your worst day is someone else’s wildest dream.  Your worst day is someone else’s wildest dream.  I say that every day because I know that it’s true.

So, Memorial Day can look like a real sad day, and for those of you that have lost many on this day, I really acknowledge you.  And for those that have given their lives, so we have what it is that we have.  But, we also have an opportunity to celebrate and to see things from a perspective that’s very, very different than the one that is going on in many people’s hearts.  So, what if we had gratitude without mourning?  What if we had gratitude without feeling like we were in sadness?  What if we didn’t grieve, but we celebrated everything and everyone who’s given everything to us?  Not just on Memorial Day, but every day.  How many holidays are you really celebrating?  I’m gonna be in confession here.  We’ve been working most of this weekend because we were gone to Dallas all last week, so we haven’t really been out enjoying this, which is one of the reasons that I decided that we need to get out and be in this beautiful sunshine.  And this beautiful green, and this beautiful world that we live in and to be with you, because I wanted so much to share my life with yours today.  And I love when you share your life with me, because we are a collective.  We are a group of individuals that come together as one.  And when we allow ourselves to see that in ourselves and each other, everything changes.  So, you have an opportunity today, right here, right now to make a difference.  You get to make a difference.

You can make a statement for yourself right now that you will wake up every day and say I LOVE MY LIFE!  And, really reach a place where you mean it, and find out what it is that you’re grateful for.  Every morning, five things before you even get out of bed, that you’re grateful for.  And five things every night before you go to sleep, that you are grateful for.  And what do you think will happen?  Your life is gonna change, that’s what’s gonna happen.  You’re gonna find that everything in your world changes because your vibration changes.  Because your attitude changes.  Because your mindset changes, and it’s up to you to make your life be what it is you want it to be.  So, you can be in sadness and you can be in grief, and you can be in joy and you can be in creation, and you can be alive! Or, you can just be whatever it is that you want to be.  That’s the freedom that we have.  We have the freedom to be whomever it is that we choose to be.  You have the free will to think what you want to think, say what you want to say, and do what you want to do.

Recognize with gratitude the incredible place that you live, and the incredible life that you have the opportunity to be, to create and to have it be whatever you would like it to be.  Happy, sad, mad or glad, it’s all up to you.  So, on this fine, awesome day, I want to thank you for being in my life.  I’m in such gratitude.  I’m in such joy that I get to share my life with yours.  And I’m asking you to share yours with me.  Please share this and also, please make some comments and let me know how you’re feeling.  I’m going to announce the winner of our sharing contest on the next Facebook Live that I do, so I’m going to announce that next time.  And until then, share cuz you can still get in the pool and you will win an amazing program called Create or Reignite Your Perfect Relationship.  It is an awesome program and it will change everything for you.  Your relationship with yourself and your relationship with others.

So, make this the most awesome day of your life so far, and remember every morning and every night, five things that you’re really grateful for.  For now, I invite you to go to my website, www.esateys.com and check it out, and let me know how I can be in your life at a whole new level and support you in ways that are beyond your wildest dreams.  Your question for today is: what would it take for me to feel gratitude in every moment of every day, no matter what was happening?  What would it take for me to feel gratitude in every moment of every day, no matter what was happening in the outside world?  Rafael, did you want to come in here and say something?

Rafael:  I want to say hi to everybody and this is what I have to be grateful for every, every day…. mwah!  Love you guys!

Thank you everyone.  Until next time, bye for now.

Author: Esateys Stuchiner

Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.

Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.

Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.

For more information, go to esateys.com.