When things are holding you back, it is because you are holding your true self back in the first place. Authenticity is they key, It is time to be a more authentic version of you. It is time to embrace what you want in life and what you need to do about it. Resisting inside will only put you through hell. It will only keep you from being happy. Find that calling within you. Write the things you most want to happen. Get real and allow your authentic self to guide you through life, and surely, you’ll find the happiness you deserve.
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This is a year that is going to be filled with a tremendous amount of everything. Some people are going to be finishing up a lot of things that they haven’t completed. This means that there are going to be issues and situations that really need to be looked at. Have you noticed already that you are being pushed up against things and having to make decisions about ways that you have been, that you’re no longer able to tolerate the way that you use to? This year is about authenticity. It’s about being real. It’s about being in your core about who you are and giving up the games and all of the other blank things that you have been doing and pretending. This is the year where the pretend self takes the backseat to the true self.
This is the year that you are going to have an opportunity to experience the profundity of the energy that is going to help you do this. How it helps you do this is sometimes not comfortable. You need to know that because what happens is when the energy comes in this intensely as it is going to an increase throughout the entire year. What occurs is that it shines the light on all of the parts that have been stuck and you’ve been rigid about. You’re not allowing yourself to look at, to change or to experience. That doesn’t feel comfortable to the personality, for the ego because it’s threatened. When we start to dig up that stuff, it becomes frightened. It’s afraid for the loss of its identity, the loss of its life. It’s not going to die, but some of the old garbage that is no longer relevant, important or supportive is not only going to, it has to go. To really feel the totality of life, you must be clear enough. You must hold enough frequency to be able to experience that.
Those of you who feel so much already, it’s because your body is holding so much light that you become virtually transparent. You become like a sieve. Things just move through you. You start to experience and feel everything. It’s not comfortable for most. Most people will do everything they can to thicken themselves up, so they don’t have to feel all of life, especially when life doesn’t always feel so fun. It doesn’t matter what your conscious mind wants because the true source of who it is that you truly are, your God, your Spirit, your Programmer, whatever your word is, is very clear about what it has in mind for next year. You as a personality or as an ego piece are going to resist or not. It’s going to usually come up with all kinds of things that will tell you is not going to be okay. It’s not safe. It could kill me. What’s going to happen if I do what I want? What’s going to happen if I tell the truth?You’re being called forth to get real. Click To Tweet
I can tell you this year and beyond, secrets don’t work. They’re not going to happen. You’ll be exposed. You will see more and more of the governmental things and all the political things are going to be exposed more than they already have. This has been going on. It’s going to increase. You’re being called forth to get too real. What’s real? What’s true? Who are you? What do you really want? In doing so, it can be frightening because it means that for some, the relationships will end. They will shift into something else and that will occur if people do not get real within the realm of their existence. They’ll gravitate towards someone or something that will allow them to be more authentic because authenticity is the word of the year.
What you can do right now is write a list of the things that you are doing that aren’t true for you. You don’t want to do them, but you’re doing them because you think you should do them. You have to do them because you’re obligated to do them. Then write another list next to it of what it is that you truly would love to do. When you become very honest with yourself, regardless of whether you act on it or not, being able to see this is going to be very supportive. There are some things that it might take a matter of time for you to evolve into. Letting go of something instantly doesn’t usually happen for most people. The letting go of can be an attitude. It can be a belief system. It can be a job. It can be a child. It can be a relationship. It can be anything. Until you really know, and you can accept the truth of what it is that’s in your core, you’re going to live in hell. It’s going to be harder and harder to live in that place because the energy will push on you until you explode, and you can’t take it anymore.
This is a powerful year. This is the most amazing experience coming your way. You’re going to find more light, more things working for you than have ever worked before. This is the year that can be the more amazing experience that you’ve ever had before. It can be the most awesome year of your life so far. The more you resist telling the truth, the more you resist being real, the more you resist listening to what it is that your body is saying, the more you resist to what it is your internal guidance system is telling you, the more pain, the more suffering, and the more difficulty you’re going to have. It’s very simple. It doesn’t seem easy, but it’s very simple. You will have to walk through those fears of what may seem to cost you. What will you lose if you tell the truth? What will you lose if you are authentic? The ego is going to say, “If I do this, it’s going to cost me that,” and so the fear will keep you stuck right in the same old place, feeling worse and worse.
If you want to know joy, then you best step up. Get real with you. Get honest with yourself. When you have that list and you don’t know how to approach it and you don’t know what to do, perhaps there’s something that I can do to support you and your clarity. This year, I’m going to do some coaching. Know that that’s an available option or find support from wherever it is that you can, that you know will be completely neutral, unbiased and sees from a very high perspective. Otherwise, you will find that you will be with people who will usually support not your highest, but rather help you stay stuck into the old patterns. That’s the key.Letting go of something in an instant doesn’t usually happen. Click To Tweet
Getting out of the box. Get out of the box and make this the most amazing year of your life so far. You can do it. You will have all the support in the world literally and figuratively to help you get through whatever it is that you have in front of you. You will know life like a small child in glee, finding joy, freedom and aliveness more than you ever have before. Until then that we connect again, feel a hug. Know that I am holding you absolutely, all of us together doing what it is that we know that we’re capable of doing. Make it so.
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Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
For more information, go to esateys.com.