Do you like being that wild person that’s really clear and authentic and forward and empowered? Or do you like feeling a little bit less-than so other people can be more-than? It’s just a great observation. And if you’re one of those people who are really pushy, who frequently dominate the situation, then how do people respond to you? Do you get the results you’re looking for? Are you able to have the results that you truly desire from the conversation or from the relationship? Because when you get these two personalities together, ooh baby, you got some issues going on most of the time! Both sides will create certain levels of success in their life, of course they’re not guaranteed to please everyone. So, look at your personality, what do you really enjoy?
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The Power of One Thing
I’m going to speak about The Power of This One Thing. I’ve always been a really good multitasker. I have to tell you that I do lots of things at one time. One of the things that I’ve learned recently that’s really working for me that I want to pass it along to you, you could call it the power of focus, but I like calling it this One Thing. I have so many lists and so many things on every list, and what I have learned to do is I have different categories for my life. It’s like my business, my family, my pets, my dogs and all that stuff. You take each category and what you do is you put underneath there all the things that you do during that time and all the things that you have to do.
What I’m doing is, in that experience, after I have the list, I pick one thing. This one thing is all I’m focusing on. I’m going to give you an example. I’m preparing to start a one-year course and I only have ten people. I have been speaking to people about that. Now, I’m also doing Facebook Live. I have a Self-Healing Institute site. I have blogs and podcasts and all these other things that I do. Right now, my focus is on one thing. Having those ten special people come that are really committed to make a complete transformation in their lives. That’s where I’m focusing. I’m doing a Facebook Live and that is not my very first focus right now. I want to invite you to think about how many things you do all at once and how ineffective we usually are when we’re doing so many things.
That’s an important thing to consider because I know that although I thought I was doing many things pretty awesomely, what I’m finding is that the power of the manifestation, the power of the completion of the one thing I’m focusing on is really making a very significant difference. I invite you to give that a try. Create your categories, put underneath in each category what it is that you do within that category, and then you create the timeframe that you want to focus on that one thing and give it a shot. Think about it, focus on it, put your attention to it. That’s what you talk about. That’s what you think about. That’s what you envision, and as soon as you get to the end of that, then what do you get to do? You get to move onto the next thing.
As I said, it doesn’t mean you’re not doing things on your other categories, but when you’re in that specific category and you’re on just that one thing, that’s all you’re allowed to think about. When I’m sitting here doing this with you or standing there doing this with you, I’m not thinking about all the other things in other categories. Give it a shot and I know that you’re going to find it to be really powerful. Thank you for your comments. Try it and write to me and tell me what it is that you’re getting out of it.
If you’d like to know more about that course I’m doing, then give me a private message or email or something and let me know. Meanwhile, I invite you to go to www.Esateys.com and check it out because there’s a free gift for you there. I really look forward to connecting with you and I hope that this is the most awesome day of your life so far, in fact, the most awesome year, in fact, the most awesome life. Until next time, remember to ask yourself this question, “What if my life became more productive, more powerful, and more connected in every single way, if I just focused on one thing?” Until next time, feel a hug.
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Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
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