Are we living in the age of rage? There are just so many things that are going on in the world right now, and when you kind of look around you just see a lot of energy. One might label it anger because it kind of looks like that, but ultimately, it’s just energy. So, what is really going on? Well first of all, what you’re starting to see is a big, collective evolutionary BOOM happening. What does that mean? Maybe you haven’t always spoken all of the truth. Maybe you haven’t been completely authentic. It’s a huge cathartic release in the evolutionary timeline, an immense explosion of energy that can be used for good or for bad.
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The Age Of Rage
It’s like a freedom day or something. I don’t know about you, but when I woke up I was just bouncing off the walls and it’s not even a full moon or a new moon and I don’t do drugs. Even my dogs are like that. I’m going to speak about the complete opposite of what I was just saying, really happy, really alive and all that stuff. Instead, I’m speaking about, “Are we in the age of rage?” This actually came up because I was speaking to someone and we were talking about a lot of things that were happening in the world right now.
For example, the United Airlines, where they overbooked and they asked somebody to get off the plane and nobody would get off the plane. They picked somebody that had to go off the plane and it started this big ruckus and this person got beat up. It just turned into this massive mess, apparently. The guy lost his two front teeth. The point is, that’s a lot of emotion. We see these things all the time.
Another thing that occurred was that there was a man who walked into the school where his wife was a teacher and she was working with special needs kids. He walked into the classroom and he shot her and one of the kids got shot and also died and then he shot himself. There’s a lot of stuff going on. What about when you’re driving down the street and you notice somebody cuts in front of you and then slams on his brakes because he didn’t like the way you drove your car or you were driving the wrong color car or his wife yelled at him or whatever?
There are just so many things that are going on in the world right now. When you look around, you just see a lot of energy and you can label it anger because it looks like that but ultimately, it’s just energy. What is really going on? First of all, what you’re starting to see is a big collective evolutionary thing happening. What does that mean? What about the idea that maybe you haven’t always spoken all of the truth? Have you possibly not been completely authentic? Have you suppressed anything that was going on with you ever in your life?
I’m pretty sure we’re all raising our hands if we’re really honest. I know that we are afraid as a collective to really speak the truth, say what’s going on, and be 100% authentic because we had that thing called, “I really want to be loved and I don’t want anybody to be mad at me.” Some of you don’t really give a fly whether somebody’s mad at you or not, but what is important is that you recognize that you are in a place where there’s probably somewhere in your life you haven’t been 100% authentic. It’s important for you to recognize that what you are going to need to do is to look at where you and perhaps somebody else in your life and other people in the world have not been 100% authentic, and have not really felt all your feelings or express all your feelings in a nice normal way, in a productive way, in an honest way, without the attack thing going on.
We have a lot of suppression and what’s happening as a collective and through the evolutionary process of mankind is, we are in a place where there’s nowhere to hide. What’s happening is I see energy squeezing us to really come up and be real. Really come forward with what’s in there, because it’s about being real now. All of this stuff that’s really been in a place of suppression and not being authentic and all that, being afraid to tell the truth, that’s really coming up in a way that is causing us to no longer be able to hide. That’s okay if you haven’t been one of those people that had been suppressing for so much that you’re going to go out and take an M16 and shoot down people. There are those people and they have energy that’s coming up inside of them in a really big way.
I was coaching somebody and this person’s been in this relationship for twenty or more years and she realized that she cannot go on any longer. It’s not okay with her to be the underdog in the relationship or to be spoken down to or to feel basically energetically or otherwise abused, because it’s along the same lines,we just take stuff on. Since we don’t feel good about it and we don’t deal with it, it gets suppressed. I invite you to take a look and see where you might be suppressed. Where is your own anger? Where’s your own range? Where is it that you find yourself being passive-aggressive? Passive-aggressive means that you say something perhaps in a joking way, but there’s a dig in there, or perhaps you’re just plain old aggressive, you attack people. You scream at people, you yell at people.
Those are all the underpinnings of deep suppressed feelings of anger and rage. I know the question is, “What do we do about this?” First of all, when it comes to the outer world, mind your own business. Stay out of everybody else’s business. This has nothing to do with you. If you’ve got friends and neighbors and all those things going on, you don’t have to get involved. It’s not your job. You have so much work to do internally. Believe me, it’s a full-time job for my own personal experience. Get a grip, mind your own business. That’s one of the things you can do.
The other thing you can do is you can monitor your thoughts. What’s going on up here? What are you thinking about? What are your emotions? Are you monitoring your thoughts? Are you monitoring your emotions? Are you just going over there with it or are you going and hiding it away? Learn how to communicate effectively. Learn how to tell the truth. If you’re not going to come to one of my retreats or seminars or listen to my programs, then at least journal.
Journaling can help you get that stuff out. Beat a pillow, scream in a pillow, dance hard, chop some wood, carry some water, whatever you need to do, but get the energy moving so it doesn’t eat you up physically, mentally, and emotionally. You don’t have some blowup that takes out your friends and your family and your children in ways that you don’t really want it to, and then you have to deal with all the guilt and all the other stuff that comes from that. Let’s get it before it hits home.
You’re going to monitor your mindset. You’re going to mind your own business. You’re going to really be clear about what’s important to you and when you do that and you express your feelings, you’re really going to find that your life will change dramatically. It’s up to you to not join in and get into what I call the mad dog syndrome. When one starts barking, all of them are barking. One starts getting into a real ruckus, they all join in. It’s the mad dog syndrome. People do that, too.
The question is, “Are you doing that?” Step away, back away, turn away, get away. Don’t get engaged. Don’t jump in and get into the mad dog syndrome. You don’t have to get involved in other people’s stuff. It’s important for you and your joy and your peace and your good humor and all of those around you because they’re going to really appreciate it. When you do it, they’ll be able to do it much easier because that’s how it works. If we open up the space, other people have a tendency to follow what we’re doing.
Here’s my request for you. First of all, I’d like you to be aware that I actually speak outside of these Facebook Lives. If you would like to have me come and speak at some organization or you know some incredible place you’d like me to go, you just let me know because I would so love to do that. I just got back from Africa, which is really awesome. I spoke to 1,500 people there. You have an opportunity to have this smiling face on your monitor board or computer or wherever you’d like it to be. You can go to Esateys.com to find out more about that. Just click the little place that says, Hire Me. I am for hire. Your question for now is, “What would it take for me to mind my own business?” May this be the most awesome day of your life so far, the most incredible week of your life so far, and I can’t wait to connect with you next time. Until then, feel a hug.
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Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
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