Why is money important to you? Part of your mind might say, “Money’s not important to me.” It may not be that important to you, but it has to be important enough for you to recognize that money buys food, money, shelter, and it allows us to be clothed and things like that. Money is a necessity whether we like to admit it or not. Therefore, there’s a certain level of importance that we have to it. We are here on the planet in an ever increasingly state of expansion. We want more. We want to be more than we were before. We want to have more money. We want to have bigger and better things by nature. Wherever it is that you are, we get to decide how we want to live our lives. We have the free will to actually decide how we want to live out in the game called life. Your belief system and mindset has a lot to do with how much money you have or don’t have. Accept that money was an awesome thing. It’s a great part of our experience here on the planet.
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Why Is Money Important To You
I appreciate you taking the time to be with me here. I know if your life is a tenth of mine, you are loaded with a lot of things that are going on. For you to take the few moments to be with me, it means a lot to me. I’m going to speak about why money is important to you. Part of your mind might say, “Money’s not important to me.” It may not be important to you, but it has to be important enough for you to recognize that money buys food, shelter, water. Most of the time, it allows us to be clothed, so money is a necessity whether we like to admit it or not. Therefore, there’s a certain level of importance that we have to it. For some, it is basic. It’s the needs that I have. For others it’s like, “I’d like a little more.” For others it’s like, “I want a whole bunch of stuff.” We are here on the planet in an ever increasingly state of expansion. We want more. We want to be more than we were before. We want to have more money. We want to have bigger and better everything by nature. I used to feel guilty about that. I don’t feel guilty about that anymore because it doesn’t matter. Wherever it is that you are, we get to decide how we want to live our lives. We have the free will to decide how we want to live out in what I call the game called life.
When I grew up, I was in a lot of conflict. The conflict that I was in was between the material world and the spiritual world. I grew up with a traditional piece of information that I was not going to be spiritual if I wanted material things. I went through this and because of that, I knew inside I wanted a lot of beautiful things. I love beautiful things. I love nature. I love beautiful things on my body and around me and all of that. I also like going places, traveling, learning, experiencing, and being in life. Those things take money and so I wanted this. I felt this desire, but my religious teachings were that because I grew up in a religious family until I didn’t. The bottom line is that I was in this conflict until one day, I had this a-ha, and I realized because of the way it is that I frame life, it is that I know that everything is spiritual. You can use the word God; whatever word you would like to use.
The bottom line is if that source point is all that is, then money has to be coming from that. It hit me. It allowed me to accept that money was an awesome thing. It’s a great part of our experience here on the planet. I made peace with that. If I asked you what does money mean to you? What words come to you? What do you say? What’s the first thing that comes to you? Does your mind say, “Money is the root of all evil. Money is an awesome way to get what it is that I really love. Money is an opportunity to grow. Money is what owns me. Money is what I own enough of?” What goes on in that mind of yours? That mind and that belief system and that mindset has a lot to do with how much money you have or you don’t have. When you are not friends with money, if you have things like, “I don’t believe in that. I don’t want that. I just want to survive,” then most of the time, that’s where it is that you’re going to be living. What we think about brings us back to what it is that we experience in life.
I personally don’t know anyone that would not like more money. It’s not something that I have the experience and the truth is it’s not the money that we want. What it is is we want what the money we think can buy. It’s the feeling we get from what it is that we can purchase. It means it’s not about the green dollars or the round coins that are gold or the numbers in our checking account. What it is is how we feel and those numbers or those dollars, that gold piece, those things are things that are creating us being in a place where we are feeling a certain feeling and what we want. We want to feel safe. We want to feel connected. We want to feel freedom.
Deep underneath there, there’s a thought process that freedom is all about money. Money can buy you certain amounts of freedom. True freedom comes from a whole another place. It does give you the freedom to do, to go, and to experience things that you otherwise wouldn’t be able to do. Your question is, “How do I get more of it? If I want to travel and I want the freedom that I want to put my children in the best schools and I would like to have the new car and I love having silk against my skin, or I want the most awesome hair products or whatever,” maybe one of these, it’s going to come because of the way you are framing it and what your willingness is. How much desire and passion do you have to have what it is that you say that you want?
The first thing is experience the feeling before you have the thing. That seems backwards sometimes, but the more that you can experience that freedom, the more you will experience what it takes to have that freedom. That’s the way the universe works. If you would like to have more money, you have to start with up here. The second part is that maybe you need or want to get a job or a second job, or maybe you want to work part time to have an adjunct to whatever it is that you want to be able to pay those bills or pay off loans or to have an expansion of what it is that you currently do in your life. You’re either going to go out there and work for it or you could go rob a bank, but I don’t suggest that. We’ve got our mindset and then we have the action. We need the action that is necessary to create the reality that you would like. It’s important for you to recognize these things and ask yourself, “Why do I want it? What does it mean to me? What will it take for me to be willing to take action to have that?” You’ll start to realize if you do these exercises I’m suggesting that things will start to shift in you. What are your fears around money? What are your resistances around money? You can ask yourself because here’s a question for this episode, “What would it take for me to allow and for me to say yes to accepting more money in my life?”
When you recognize that, you will be in a place where you will have the results that you want. If you would like to know how you can be in a constant state of self-development, which is what life is about. I might add, specifically, have a self-development course while receiving a paycheck, then private message me. I invite you very strongly to private message me and let’s have a conversation to see how we can have you get exactly what you want. Remember your question. What would it take for me to say yes to receiving more money, more freedom, and more excitement and love in my life? Until next time, feel a hug.
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Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
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