We all want something in life, whether it be putting our children through school, a new car, a new home. Whatever it is, there’s a reason and it has to be something that will wake up in the morning and what will we focus on. However, why do you want what it is that you want? When you know your why, you can show up with a degree of passion to have it. It’s important to be committed and to follow through to achieve what you want so when fear gets in the way, you will be able to say that nothing and no one will stand in the way of what you’re committed to.
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Why You Don’t Get What You Think You Want Part 2
This is part two of Why You Don’t Get What You Think You Want. Hopefully, you’ve read part one already, that’s a good thing to read before you do this one. I’m going to do a review to get you in the flow. I spoke about that there’s a lag time in manifestation on this planet, and it has purpose, and it’s valuable because what occurs is that we have a time to think about and determine if that’s what we really want. When we do that, it gives us a chance to reconsider and see if we want to put all our energy on it or not. The second thing that I suggested that you do is that you move yourself to a place where you’re in touch with your resistances.
Feel that feeling, that doubt, that fear, whatever it is that’s there, and when you notice that, take a moment and sit down and literally write out what comes up. Just spontaneous, like streams of consciousness, about what that fear’s about and that’s going to help start lift that. Let’s assume we got all that cleared up. Now we know what it is that we want, and we’re very clear about. We spoke about how we have to have very pristine clarity about what it is that we want. Now that we’ve got that, we know exactly what it is that we’re desiring, then we have to look at, “Why do I want this? Why do I even want this?” Because if you don’t know why you want what it is that you want, there’s no passion there.
There has to be a tremendous amount of energy. To manifest on this planet means that you have to come up with the energy that it takes to put your intention, your vibration, your thought processes and all of your energy on it. What’s going to bring that up big? It’s the why. Why am I doing this? Is it because I want to put my children through school? Is it because I want a new Tesla? Is it because I want my own home? That will be awesome. I want new clothes. I want a new camera. I want a new phone. I want to do something. Whatever it is, there’s a reason and that reason has to be enough that it will fire you up and you wake up in the morning and that’s what it is that you’re going to focus on. Because that’s what it is that is your highest priority.
When you want something, you have to recognize it’s got to be a high priority, because if it isn’t, it’s going to show up with a degree of passion you have for it. The second thing that’s important is for you to find that passion at a level that’s in your gut, it’s in your heart, it’s in your soul. The why brings up that passionate feeling, and that energy will grow up inside of you to where it’s like nothing and no one is standing in my way. I mean nothing and no one’s going to stand in my way because this is what I’m committed to, which takes me to the next one, commitment. You have to have a commitment. Sometimes it isn’t easy. Sometimes it is in a place in our lives where we seem to bump up against. I’ve been in that place a lot of my life.
When I was younger, when I was taking a respite from medicine, I went into real estate. When I was in real estate, I made the decision, I desired to be a multi-million-dollar producer in real estate my first year in real estate. You probably heard me tell the story before, but the interest rates were eighteen, the points were up seventeen or nineteen or something ridiculous. I didn’t even think about that. All I thought about was that I am going to be a multi-million-dollar producer my first year in real estate. All of these things that were already in play with the interest rates and all of that was happening, but guess what then? If I didn’t think it was enough of a challenge then, let’s do this. Let’s have a serious car accident. Let’s go through a telephone pole and be in a hospital bed, upright for three months. Let’s be in a wheel chair for a year.
Do you ever put handicaps like that on yourself? Do you ever notice those kinds of seeming blocks that are going to do anything to keep you from what it is you say you want? Not uncommon. Maybe not to that extreme, but it’s there. Because the universe is always teaching us to be moving up the ladder and getting stronger and being more empowered with what it is that we want to see where it is that we have passion for what it is that we say we want. Otherwise we would have all kinds of things. Have you ever been in a place where you said, “I wish they would die?” Maybe you meant it but probably you didn’t, and think if your word instantly manifested? That would not be necessarily in your best interest because you’d probably end up in jail, let alone feeling a lot of guilt. The bottom line is that the way the universe is set up is quite powerful. You have to learn how to live within the realms of the way it is set up, if you want what it is that you want within the time frame that seems reasonable and doesn’t take your whole lifetime to get there.
We’ve got our why. We know that we have to be committed, and you’ve got to follow through. Because a commitment means that you have to keep on going. Keep on going, and when you come up against those blocks, that’s when you have an opportunity to go back to your why. “I’m doing this because I want,” whatever that is for you. You’ve got your why, you’ve got your commitment and you are committed to follow through. That means that you will let nothing and no one stand in the way. When that fear comes up, and it probably will, and when that doubt comes up, and it probably will, that’s when you say, nothing and no one will stand in the way of what I’m committed to. It also means that you are going to be in a place where you get to realize that there’s fear there. The fear will try to stop you and you will say to yourself, “I will never, ever let the fear stop me.” When you find that kind of commitment, your manifestations will come about, but it takes that kind of intensity. When you recognize that, you will realize that things happen so much more rapidly.
I’m going to leave you with a question. What would it take for me to be fully and completely in a place where I receive what it is that I desire? What will it take for me to be fully and completely in a place where I am allowing myself to receive exactly what I desire? I know you can do it. These are key principles that will make a difference in your life. This is what is going to make the world a better place. Send me a private message. I appreciate you being here with me. Here’s what it is that I want to invite you for, and that is a free twenty-minute coaching or counseling or consulting session with me. It doesn’t matter what it’s about. It can be about your business, it can be about your health, it can be about your relationship, it can be about your children, it can be about your money. It doesn’t matter. I can support you. No strings attached. Just send me a private message and I’ll send you my scheduling link. I look forward to connecting with you and being with you so you are manifesting what you are truly desiring. Until next time, feel a hug.
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Author: Esateys Stuchiner
Esateys (pronounced Ee sáh teez) is an International Life Transformational Speaker, Author, Master Facilitator, Life Coach and Expert in the Human condition. She is a Nationally and Board Certified Nurse Practitioner. For over 30 years, she has practiced, taught and lectured extensively in the allopathic and alternative medicine field.
Esateys is known for her groundbreaking work in the areas of personal empowerment and health restoration using mindset and inner connection as the catalyst for all change.
Esateys describes herself as the ‘Architect of the New You’ and has dedicated her life and professional career to helping her clients create “New Beginnings” by facilitating self empowerment, economic freedom and restored health.
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